Sex room designer details kinky customer requests

What if your taste is less Raymour and Flanigan and more “Splay more and flogging ‘Em”?

Interior designer and star of Netflix’s new series “How to Build a Sex Room” Melanie Rose has heard it all.

Dungeon beds, potty chairs, Andrew’s crosses, tension benches, palisades. Countless amounts of vibrators and dildos and butt plugs and c–k rings, it’s a wide variety, it’s all across the board,” she tells Vidak For Congress of just a few of the requests she’s made from her kinky clients over the years. has got.

Melanie Rose
Sex room designer Melanie Rose has received requests from clients ranging from “dungeon beds” to “potty chairs.”
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The British-born designer, sort of a Mary Poppins-esque butt plug advocate if you will, had been an interior designer for 20 years before a client inquired about a sex room.

“I thought, ‘Why not?'” she says, adding that she wanted to change the perception of sex rooms, which are often considered “dirty and disgusting”.

A shot of a sex room from "how to build a sex room" on Netflix
The British-born designer creates luxurious and high-end sex rooms.
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“They can be beautiful, they can be luxurious, and they can be high-end,” she says.

In the series — which premieres on the streaming service on Friday, July 8 — Rose talks to couples about their sex lives and fantasies, then builds their own dream sex rooms in their homes.

Melanie Rose and two customers in the series
Rose works with couples to design their perfect room.
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“I want them to be open with me and explain to me about their own personal sex lives…sex together or if there are other people involved,” Rose says. “So I really need to know what their sex life is like if there are any problems or what they want a sex room for. Do they want it as an experience? Do they want it as a fantasy room? So, you know, I get into the core questions.”

Rose hopes the series will encourage couples to open up to their partners about their desires. She emphasizes that you don’t need a separate room to improve your sex life.

Melanie Rose with clients
She says starting with toys is helpful in brightening up your sex life.
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“Discuss what you want in your sex life and how you want to improve it and start (with) very little by perhaps bringing adult toys into the bedroom,” she advises. “I think that’s one of the big things. A sticking point for me is people saying, ‘No, no, no, my sex life is perfect. I don’t need a sex toy in my room,” because they find it embarrassing and feel like they’re going to be judged. No, we got beautiful bodies to go out and experiment with some toys.

“It’s okay to talk about sex,” she adds, “If you want a sex room, go ahead. And, you know, look, if you want to be sexual, don’t be ashamed of saying so.

“If you want to try new things, new experiences, new fantasies… Again, don’t be ashamed to talk about it.”

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